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Arigato, dear investor,
I’ve always believed that life is a journey of learning, unlearning, and relearning again.
Not just in investing.
Not just in wealth creation.
But in the most important relationship we’ll ever have —
the relationship with ourselves. 🥹
Because only when we learn to love and embrace who we are —
our flaws, our past, our mistakes, our ups and downs —
can we truly grow into a stronger, wiser, more grounded version of ourselves.
đź’› A surprising invitation after coming back from Bali
Right after my Bali trip, I was invited to attend a Releasing Financial Block workshop conducted by Laura — a certified family and systemic constellations facilitator who guides people through deep, transformative inner healing.
At first, I hesitated.
I thought,
“Shouldn’t I be over my old financial wounds by now? Haven’t I healed enough?”
But I went anyway.
And I’m so grateful I did.
Because what happened during that one-day workshop moved me in ways I didn’t expect.

đź’› My first family constellation experience
This was my very first time experiencing a family constellation where participants were randomly chosen to represent roles in each other’s emotional landscape.
And even though none of us knew one another, the accuracy was unbelievable.
It wasn’t logic guiding us — it was energy.
It was the wisdom of the “knowing field,” revealing clues, patterns, and truths.
During my turn, Laura gently guided me back to a memory I rarely revisit…
đź’› The six-year-old girl inside me
When I was 6 years old, living in China, my parents divorced.
Life changed overnight.
I felt:
• lonely
• abandoned
• unsafe
• and unsure of where I belonged
When my mother remarried and brought me to a brand new environment, I tried so hard to be “good,” to behave, to fit in — just so I could feel loved and accepted.
But deep down, I always felt like an outsider.
I found it difficult to give love… because I didn’t feel like I belonged.

đź’› A powerful moment of healing
Through Laura’s guidance, something beautiful happened.
She helped me reconnect with my younger self —
the sad, bitter, lonely little girl.
And in that moment, I realised:
I am strong enough now to love her.
To protect her.
To care for her.
She also helped me see that my parents made the choices they needed to make to pursue happiness — and that today, both of them are living peaceful, joyful lives in their new families.
It was a blessing in disguise all along.
đź’› A deeper appreciation for my dad
I also felt a wave of gratitude for my dad (my stepfather), who has never treated me any differently — who loved me and my sister wholeheartedly and provided for us without hesitation.
And now, one of my deepest desires is to take care of him as he grows older — to give him the financial security he worked so hard to give us.

đź’› Healing changes everything
Going through the Releasing Financial Block workshop made me realise:
Healing takes time.
Healing requires courage.
Healing is not linear.
But when clarity comes…
when understanding arrives…
when acceptance settles into the heart…
Everything shifts.
Since the workshop, my relationship with my family and relatives has softened.
I feel more at ease giving.
I feel more connected and grateful.
And most importantly, I feel deeply, abundantly loved — by God, by my family, and by life itself.
đź’› Thank you, Laura
I’m so grateful to Laura for guiding me through such a powerful transformation.
If you feel called to experience her work —
to gain clarity, release what’s been holding you back, and reconnect with yourself on a deeper level —
you can explore her sessions here:
Whether you're facing recurring challenges, longing for resolution, or seeking a deeper sense of connection, her work has the power to shift how you see and experience your life.
Would love to have you join us,
and keep learning together—the Arigato way 💛
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Arigato!
Chloe
Arigato Investor
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